Yes! You can own "Your Perfect." My guess is you know you can too. If you have a version of perfect that fits you, than who am I anyone or else to tell you that you can’t own Your Perfect?
It turns out it's not a cut and dry case though. In fact, the English dictionary says the idea of women owning their perfect is wrong. And we're going to challenge it!
You see the very means which we use to communicate, the English language, doesn't allow for us to own Our Perfect. Well, I have decided to fight to get that changed… for all of us. And I could use your help.
Let me tell you the full story... When I coach women through "The 3 Women System," my clients find “Their Perfect." It’s the definition of what their version of perfect is for themselves.
I discovered my perfect when I began creating Elegant Femme. So recently, I decided to release a new coaching program, and I knew exactly what to name it!
Your Perfect was just what women were experiencing with "The 3 Women System," and so the name was born… Your Perfect Coaching Program.
BUT, I realized almost immediately when I typed it into a Word document that spell check told me and everyone else that you cannot own “perfect."
I shared my belief that women could own their perfect last week on a telecall - and the result was a resounding YES, as women from across the World emailed me saying, "Yes Tara, I want to own my perfect."
So this gave me a brilliant idea. What if we as women go to the authorities themselves and give them a chance to amend their error?
I am considering starting a petition of 1 million women who are ready to own their perfect. So tell me, what do you think? Is it possible to own YOUR Perfect? Are you ready to take off the mask of perfection and truly live Your Perfect? I want your comments, and I want to know what you think. Will you sign this controversial petition, and do your part for yourself, and for women everywhere?
With love and beauty always... Tara Marino P.S I welcome your comments! .
In just a few hours I will be hosting a call explaining The # 1 mistake women are making that is holding them back from their true power (and it is NOT what you think)
We only have 150 designated lines for this call. Please call in 5 minutes early to reserve your spot. This email is going out to thousands of women and you don't want to miss it.
We will be discussing some things I have NEVER shared before, my heart is racing thinking about it, but I know I will help you.
P.S. Put this information in the calendar/alarm in your Iphone or Blackberry as a REMINDER.
Call in Time: Tonight (Wednesday Feb 17th) @6PM PST/9PM EST
Tatiana Linscott commented on 26-Feb-2010 09:27 AM
Hi Tara, Do you have a recording of this call. I can't take calls at 6pm -the time I commute from work and arrive home. But I would love to hear them. Will you be able to record your next call? Thank you, - Tatiana
Here is a quick personal video message for you. Find out how I constantly use the 3 women system to make sure I am living authentically and how you can too.
In this really short video you’ll get details on how to find out if you’re a Pleaser or a Teaser. Believe me you want to know this.
Also we have been working on a new program for you. It’s almost ready...
Ps. Tomorrow night I am hosting a call that you will not want to miss. Find out if your a Pleaser or a Teaser and why you don’t want to be one of them.
With love and beauty always... Tara Marino P.S I welcome your comments! .
Today I want to challenge you. Are you up for it? Come on.
I promise this will be very easy and fun. The best part
is you will feel great if you follow this simple process.
It is a little exercise that can get you to DO Something.
Too often I see people wait. Wait for tomorrow or wait
for when they feel they DESERVE it, maybe when they are
truly successful or when their weight is perfect. So
let's skip the waiting shall we?
Ok are you ready? Take out a piece of paper. Preferably a
nice piece of note paper that looks special. Not the back of
an envelope:) On the top of the paper write down this
phrase
Things I Want to Do
Then I want you to write down 10 or more things that you
want to DO. Sounds easy right. Well hopefully it is but
often many women have a hard time doing this. So just
write down 10 things you would like to do. Here are some
examples…
Ride a bike.
Go to Egypt to see the pyramids.
Take a hike up the mountain you drive by on your daily
commute.
Call your old college roommate who you have lost touch with.
Volunteer for a local charity (make a wish, habitat for
humanity, your church, whatever charity you are drawn to).
Now this is the fun part. Think about which of your 3 women
you need to honor. All you entrepreneurs out there may want
to honor your Frenchie or your Indie. You get the point.
I want you to look at your piece of fancy paper and pick one
that excites you and honors the woman inside who can use
some attention. Now today, right now take action on it.
Yes do it, you deserve it!
If it is something elaborate like a trip then make a call to a
travel agent and get the ball rolling. If it is a hike or
something you can do this weekend then plan it and even
more importantly do it.
Make it a must do for you! Make yourself accountable to the
feeling you have inside that knows this is something that
will make YOU feel great.
If you don’t do this it’s ok.
The question you should ask yourself is "Are you OK with
just being OK?"
My guess is no. You deserve more.
With love and beauty always... Tara Marino P.S I welcome your comments! .
Recently I completed something I had been thinking about for years. In essence, my very well thought out plan was ready to be unveiled.
The work and planning that went into this was pristine and it was going to be a complete success.
If I went forward with it lives would be changed. I had committed to the plan and I was feeling I had to follow through, so much was already in motion. I felt like I couldn't stop.
But there was a problem. My planning did not take something HUGE into consideration.
You see yesterday was the birthday of my first born son Mason. He passed away from pneumonia back in 02. Please don't feel sad when I say that, it was one of the most beautiful gifts of my life. It taught me compassion, and I needed to remember that gift of compassion for myself yesterday.
So here is the lesson and the mind shift you can put into place today to make the “RIGHT” choices.
It will help you avoid getting into the cycle of no time with too many things to do and feeling like you are on a treadmill with no OFF button. The truth is you do have a choice and so did I.
After I looked at what I was about to do yesterday I realized it was all business (New Yorker for the newbies;)
At first I thought it would be ok because this is always a very powerful day for me. In fact some of my biggest successes have actually materialized on this day.
Then as I was taking my walk to the beach yesterday I thought about my spirit (Indie;).
Sometimes one of your 3 women is in the zone and can almost dominate you. It didn’t happen to me this time, but it almost did.
Rather than letting my New Yorker take the stage, I decided to honor my Indie and take some time for me.
I changed my perspective just a little and noticed that I was in danger of allowing myself to get out of balance.
By acting quickly you too can make a “change of plans” that best supports your ultimate vision, the authentic YOU.
We have these opportunities every day. Sometimes it is as small as taking 5 minutes to get up from your desk and taking a walk to go smell some flowers in your garden.
Other times it is something even more monumental that is so obvious that you just have to say YES to you.
Honoring these times will give you what you need and are missing in your life, a true sense of balance. I encourage you to keep your eyes open when these presents show up in your life. Ask yourself:
"What can I do today to make a “Change in Plans” that will allow me to really take care of myself?"
Have a beautiful day and please hug the people you love.
With love and beauty always... Tara Marino P.S I welcome your comments! .
Thank you Tara! I find myself working 24/7 and also forgetting about me and my spiritual side and taking care of myself. This brings me to another point, I have made no time to address my wardrobe over the last couple of years and need to desparately. :)
commented on 06-Feb-2010 09:32 AM
You are soooo right! The New Yorker days are so outwardly rewarding so it's easy to give them more of my time. It's very important to remind/force yourself to remain in balance. I think I'm going to create a super fun family day today! Thanks for the inspiration!
Bridget commented on 06-Feb-2010 09:41 AM
Tara. You amaze me. You lead by exams and that is what is so wonderful bout you as a coach. To sit back and honor you after all the time you have spent on your big 'idea'...it's to true how we tend to get into overdrive because 'we have to'. No, we don't! We CHOOSE to. I love what you said about just getting up to go take a shot walk and smell some flowers in the yard. We don't have to ditch life and avoid responsabilities that yes we may have to tend do, but we can choose to listen to our 3 women and ensure we feed them ALL so we can be balance. I am SO happy I have you as a coach. You ARE helping me change my life!! Hugs xoxoxo Also, I want to send you belated love and peace as you remeber the wonderful day that Mason blessed your life. Sounds like he was INDEED an EXTRA SPECIAL gift and he chose to enter your life as he did for a
very specific reason. What an amazing little sole. :)
Tara commented on 06-Feb-2010 10:06 AM
Wendy,
Just saw this on my way out to my spiritual physchology class and I could not agree more. Take time to breathe today and connect with your Indie. About the wardrobe, a part of allowing self care is really stepping into a wardrobe that represents your authentic self-keep an eye out for what we have coming up with Elegant Femme, clothes and design are one of my favorite things. Have a beautiful day Wendy
Tara commented on 06-Feb-2010 10:12 AM
Bridget,
Thank you for the beautiful compliments. You have been amazing in your course, the motivation, action and self love I have seen you exhibit over the past 4 months has been incredible. I hear you listening more and more to your inner voice and truly expressing your authentic self. You are stepping into a life designed specifically for you, BY you and you are right the choice is ours. You have taken your 3 women and embraced them, your results are yours!
Thank you for the blessing you sent to Mason.
Tara,
Thank you for sharing your need to "change your plans" in order to honor what you were really needing in the moment. I look forward to following your success here and across the web.
;)
Amy (@LotusAmy on twitter)
Ingrid commented on 08-Feb-2010 12:37 PM
thanyou so much tara, as always for your beautiful words. It somehow seems that your words come in handy just for the time I´m living with. Have an excelent day and please keep on you good work!
Tara,
You come from the heart on this one, as well as from the wise sage within. Man or woman, when we make that change of plans and take care of ourselves then we have more to share with others.
Happy Valentine's Day!
Sherrie Rose
The Love Linguist
Yes! You can own "Your Perfect." My guess is you know you can too. If you have a version of perfect that fits you, than who am I anyone or else to tell you that you can’t own Your Perfect? 
In just a few hours I will be hosting a call explaining 
Today I want to challenge you. Are you up for it? Come on.
I promise this will be very easy and fun. The best part
is you will feel great if you follow this simple process.
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