Do you deserve it? There is a better question to ask...

Do you deserve it?  There is a better question to ask yourself…
If you have ever wanted something in your life and wondered if you
deserved it then this video is for you.

Actually we as women have been taught to ask the wrong question,
and it is leading us into guilt instead of pleasure.

I made this private video for you from a special place we visited
on Father’s Day.

It is private moment and I share some details that have come up
for us personally.

Remember to leave a comment, when we allow ourselves to become visible
as women and voice our truth… the shift inside begins.

FemmeType Insight: This video is for YOUR INDIE
It will help increase your confidence and self-worth

Your Frenchie will feel more permission to enjoy what she really desires
Your New Yorker will be more aware of what strategic action she require

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25 Responses to Do you deserve it? There is a better question to ask...

  1. Ellen says:

    I loved the video. I have always wondered if I deserve wonderful things in my life, since I was raised to always sacrifice something to make other people. Now, I have decided to leave my present job that is so unfulfilling and is fraught with a lot of stress. I realize that I deserve a job that makes ME HAPPY first of all. It needs to be a job that will make me feel that what I am doing really is making a difference in the world. So, please, say a little prayer that what I deserve will come to fruition, especially the joy and happiness that comes with doing something in life that you really love AND that makes a difference.


    • June says:

      This was a good video at just the right time :-)
      I did just leave a job I loved, but did not allow ANY life balance given the hours. So I jumped, now in the job search arena again, I am struggling with the "what can I do" "what do I deserve" frame of mind.The questions I ask daily is"have I earned the right to something better"? "And Am I capable of something better"? Or is it my ego that thinks I am bigger than I really am?
      Yes is my answer, I am deserving of anything that is going to work my life into what I love to do every day and leave time for those I love! It is not ego, it is passion that pushes us to be more and want more.
      Too often with work we feel it is what it is and it can't be changed because we need the money. Well money comes and goes, but life just passes and we have no control over the speed it chooses. But money, work, family, and creating joy from all of those is something we can take charge of.
      I deserve to paint for work which is my passion(and I am good:-) ) With that I deserve to get the dollar amount of my choice.
      I deserve to spend time with my loved ones, ride my horse with my husband and paint until the sun goes down and just love life!!

      Thanks Tara, you rock!!

  2. I deserve life to flow with ease, comfort, beauty, and joy.

  3. Dana says:

    Love this Tara! First thing that came to mind is Bliss!... "Complete Happiness".... When I'm happy, everything is in sync! :) xo .. Success keeps coming to mind too (that's my NYer chiming in :)

  4. edry says:

    Hi Tara
    Why we have to think we deserved or not?
    I mean, we are alive, we are mothers, wifes, sisters, workers, named it
    We have to embrased our lives and thank God to all the magnificent things He has for all womens.
    YES.. we deserved it. hapiness,family, abundance, dreams, love/sex :)..... Why not? Just open your heart & ask for it.
    A big hug from the Caribbean

    • tara says:

      Hugs from France, yes it is so true we have the deserving part covered
      it is now time to ask the bigger question, what else do you deserve Edry?;)

  5. Carolyn says:

    I deserve an abundance of peace, tranquility, and joy in my life surrounded by the people I love and that love me.
    I deserve to live a long life enjoying vibrant health and fitness.
    I deserve to be comfortable in my home and with my finances.
    I deserve to vacation to see the parts of the world that I really want to see or just to sit with a good book at the beach on on top of a mountain.
    Tara -- I loved your video. I hope your day on the water with Dave and the boys was absolutely wonderful.

    • tara says:

      It was wonderful thank you...
      I hear all that you deserve and now it is time to truly receive it!

  6. Barbara Gonzalez says:

    Thank you for your video. You are so right, we are always questioning if we deserve things. So to answer your question: What do I deserve? I deserve the best that life can offer, a life of comfort, a stable and joyous relationship with my partner and kids, and an awesome job where I can perform to the best of my abilities.


  7. Xixi says:

    Thank you for your inspiration, Tara.
    I deserve to have a loving relationship with myself.
    I deserve to have a loving relationship with my boyfriend.
    I deserve to have a successful and thriving business.
    I deserve to have abundance of joy in all areas of my life.
    I deserve to have all the physical things that I need and want in my life.
    I deserve to feel fulfilled and satisfied in what I do and how I do everything.
    I deserve to enjoy the freedom that my business provides.
    I deserve to have financial success and stability.
    I deserve to have great and long lasting friendships.
    I deserve to have a loving relationship with my family.
    I deserve to have a fit and healthy body.
    I deserve to feel beautiful and share my inner and outer beauty with the world.

  8. Amany Samir Fahmy says:

    I deserve to start shining my own luminous light after so much darkness (preparation for the light) I deserve to be accepted as I am and to be my unique self not what others want me to be or expect of me. I deserve to experience more and more of life's beauty, richness and depth. I deserve to know more about universal laws and life secrets and to be able to use my invisible magic wand. I deserve to fly like a beautiful butterfly.

  9. Lisa says:

    I deserve to make good money for doing something I love.

    Tara, your video arrived at the precise perfect moment. After so much time spent praying and working on manifestation and my Indies, etc, etc, etc, I recently was presented with the possibility of doing something I love for double the amount I'm making at a j-o-b that I don't really enjoy and have been dreaming about leaving for two years. At first my husband was against it, but after only a short discussion, he said he thought it would work and he would support me in going for it. So this week, my last reservations were my own and earlier today before I even got this email from you, I realized that even though the exact thing I'd been wanting to happen was sitting right in front of me, staring me in the face, the problem I was having was accepting that I deserve to have this. So THANK YOU! Yes, I do deserve the "more" I've been desiring. It's my turn. It's my time. And I'm going to go for it!


  10. Kimberly says:

    Hi Tara,
    Thank you for sharing your beautiful spirit. I realize that I do deserve more but fear has always been a big obstacle for me. I do deserve to enjoy everyday living and live life how I would like to. I deserve more love in my life in terms of family and friends. I deserve a responsible spouse. I deserve financial health where I can have more freedom and the ability to help others. It is very helpful to stop and think about ourselves and what we deserve. Have a lovely weekend with your family!

  11. Diana Sheridan says:

    I deserve bliss....and all that entails.

  12. Jill says:

    YES I deserve to be showered with gifts from the creator. This is why I am here. Thank you for holding the space for me! I deserve to explore our glorious world and enjoy it all in great abundance!!

  13. gina feletar says:

    Thank-you Tara for the video

    I deserve to love be loved

  14. Mara says:

    When I wrote out my "I deserve" free-flow thoughts, even as I was writing it, I felt "I'm not so sure I deserve this!" But I kept writing. Has that happened to other people?

  15. Pam says:

    Thank you, Tara, for the beautiful video. I deserve respect, love, happiness, peace and prosperity. I have had the idea in my head for all my life that I was not deserving of all this. My life has reflected this. I made the decision to quit my job over a year ago, despite not having a real backup plan and have been trying to "find" myself again. I have been in bad relationships, have raised my son as a single mom, and have my mom living with me (she's 88 and bitter about her own losses is life). I have always had a no quit attitude, but sometimes it is hard to keep myself up much less her. Your video made me stop and think about ME. Where did I lose ME!! I deserve all that is available. Gosh, that's hard to say, but it is true. I MATTER!!! God Bless you for all you do and showing us the love and beauty that abounds around us.

  16. Lauri says:

    I deserve a house that belongs to me, that I can share with others and enjoy my life within.

  17. Yvonne says:

    Hi Tara,

    Loved the video!! I love the water. i grew up near the water and my two grandfathers were lobstermen all their lives.
    Yes, fear and guilt does get in the way sometimes.
    I deserve to be employed. Working at the job I studied for two years.
    I deserve to be physically fit and spiritually fulfilled all the days of my life!
    I deserve a fulfilling marriage and great relationships.
    I deserve the home of my dreams.
    I deserve the vehicle of my choice.
    I deserve an exciting life.

  18. Claire says:

    I hadn't checked my emails for a few days and ..... this was the theme of a conversation I had with a friend this morning. How perfect I should see this today!
    I deserve to be lean, sculpted, energised and glowing with healthy beauty.
    I deserve a vocation that I am passionate about.
    I deserve to infuse fun and enjoyment into work, as well as outside of work.
    I deserve abundance in all areas of my life, that I cannot wait to share!
    thank you for a great opportunity to focus and to see the Med :-)

  19. Dawn says:

    Tara---Thank you for this amazing video. I absolutely loved it!! I deserve living a life filled with love, happiness, warmth, kindness, passion, ease, elegance, and adventure. I deserve a fullfilling relationship with a partner who will support my growth and love me unconditionally and I am able to do the same. I deserve a life with a job I love but will also afford me the luxuries in life that I know I deserve. I deserve to be fit and healthy, dress elegantly everyday, and feel beautiful everyday!! I deserve to have a life that I truly love and embrace its beauty every day!! I

  20. Monica Moura says:

    I deserve my own financial independence and to be debt free! I deserve my own business that works for me even when I can't come to work. I deserve a partner who loves me for me and wants to spend time with me and share a life with me. I deserve a beautiful family. I deserve everything I have been dreaming about for the last 3 years!

  21. Jenny says:

    I deserve to be heard, acknowledged, respected and to be loved truly loved.

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