My own relationship with money has shifted so dramatically over the past few years. Many of us have done some exploration on why we feel the way we do about money and how that impacts us, and many of us still find ourselves in a reactionary space with money.
Anxiety, tension, arguments and stress often surround our relationship with money. Whether we have a lot or a little, most people find themselves in a constant state of emotional imbalance when it comes to money.
If you are feeling anything less then peace with your finances then you must address these 5 aspects with your self. Be real and honest. Allow your insight to guide you. Feel sensually connected to your truth and begin to understand the following.
Your relationship with money depends on four important aspects.
1.) Receiving
2.) Making
3.) Having
4.) Gifting/Sharing
5.) Keeping
Ask yourself the following questions in each of the 5 aspects and allow your relationship with money and prosperity to open up to a brand new level.
1.) On a scale of 1-10 my ability to ___________________ (insert receiving, making, having, gifting/sharing and keeping) money is at a __________. (insert 1-10) Be real with yourself.
For example, “On a scale of 1-10 my ability to keep money is at a 3.”
2.) If I am honest and sensually authentic with myself, my relationship with ______________________ insert (receiving, making, having, gifting/sharing and keeping) money makes me feel like….
For example, “If I am honest and sensually authentic with myself, my relationship with keeping money makes me feel like a failure. Why can I never get it right, why can’t I hold on to anything? What am I so afraid? What will happen if I keep it? Who will take it away from me? I feel cheated.”
3.) Here you will have a big “AHHA” if you were honest and real. In this step express self-compassion for where you currently are and forgive yourself.
For example, I forgive myself for not trusting myself to keep money. My intention is to improve my relationship with this aspect of money.
4.) Look back over your answers from question #1 and see which aspect you graded as your lowest score. Now focus your intention on improving your relationship with this aspect for the next 30 days.
For example, ask your self “What is the one action I can take/allow this month that will improve my relationship with this aspect?” Maybe it is journaling, maybe it is gifting to charity, maybe it is a new financial system, maybe it is even a conversation with someone you love and sharing how you really feel about money.
Your confidence with money will grow and you will be ready for the next level of prosperity.
Sensually (and abundantly) yours,
Tara
This is difficult for me. My late parents were very poor so I guess I have to do some work on how I relate to money, income, expenses, having money etc etc.
I have been unemployed for four years and taking a redundancy, purchased a house which is paid for and looking for work.
I am a mature woman and there is a lot of discrimination in the workplace – work seems difficult to obtain
I am finding it difficult to answer the above questions as well. I have always worked since I was 15 yrs old. Have been married and divorced and feeling good about being single again and getting on with life.
Have obviously got problems with money and dont get enough income to do what I need to do.
Have been given food for thought.
chris